MEN and their LOINS... WOMEN and their HEARTS.

A man will always be a man. Their brain lies between their legs and it has been that way since pre-historic times, cheating started with them. 

From the polygamous relationships of the cave men, the Alpha male's right to "dominate,"

the knights and noblemen of the medieval time who have the right of Jus Primae Noctis, 

"blessing" marriages by taking the bride into his bed on the first night of her union.

To the present day of "open relationships"

and "no strings attached". 

Can't say you can't trust a man, but reality is, that's the way he is, the good and the bad ones. Sometimes, girls prefer the bad boys because somehow, they are already true to themselves unlike the good boy types who have their reputations to worry about. Good boys have the tendency to lie than the bad boys because of a girl's blatant expectation that he won't hurt her.

I don't believe the "don't you trust me?" line. It's a man's way of making women feel guilty, ending the argument, thus ending the further questioning and shutting us up. It's a really good way to squeeze themselves out of an argument.













My ex used to tell me that. I trusted him 100% , no doubts coz that's the way I am, but know what he did? I caught him playing seesaw with the wicked witch of Vancouver. So what did I do? lol. DON'T ASK. ;D













So I say, trust yourself, trust your instinct but don't be a nag. Observe, collect, and when you know that you got enough ammo, fire all the way. But one thing though, learn how to forgive when forgiveness is due, learn to let go of the pride that's holding you back, and forget. Never bring it up again so you can move on. After all, there's such a thing as "psychotic" jealousy.  And sometimes, in the most special cases, love is enough reason to stay.

Girls are smart, but our hearts get the best of us. If we love someone, that's that, and when they break our hearts, we find ourselves lost and miserable. Cliche as it may be, things do happen for a reason and people come into our lives for a purpose, some to stay and others to teach us a lesson. Maybe the beauty of it all, or shall I say the silver lining of the pain is that you felt how it is to love, from the bottom of your heart, by making this one person the most important person in your life. He may not have given back what you put out there for him, but at least you can say that you my dear, have given him the best of you. He was just stupid enough not to see that. 

When people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anybody who leaves you, and it doesn't mean that they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over.

Sometimes differences takes its toll, disappointments wear you out, and compromise just doesn't work the way it used to. Our own desires make us selfish, his needs make him weak and most often he seeks out for someone who can fill that need for him. That seems unfair but sometimes, that's how men are. 

I feel your pain, I feel your heartbreak, I feel your loss. But the one thing that you can say to yourself, the one thing that you could hold onto in times of anger and regret, is that you loved him, with all of your heart, and you can never be wrong with love.

Love can never be evil. Desire, passion, lust, can be evil, but love, it is ever pure and untainted. 

You have to know that you are a beautiful person, inside and out. You deserve someone who can see that and who will appreciate that. Someday someone will come along, someone who deserves all of you, who will love you with no reservations.

You are strong. Your will to go on is stronger. He might have somehow completed you, but he's not all of you. He's not someone you need, but someone you want. In time you will be ok.

Moving on is a choice, choose to move forward, and someday when you'll look back, you will know why all this shit had to happen, and somehow, in that way, you will be ready for that one person who truly deserves you. 

I know you feel like you're in broken pieces, but you have to pick up each broken piece of you. It will hurt, you will bleed, but you have to hold on. 

Grasp that strength to pull yourself back together, and hope that in time you will heal. Soon, what you will have are just scars, but this scars will make you stronger. It will be a reminder that once in your life you have loved.. truly, without inhibitions and that my darling will help you become a better person.

Choose to be better and not bitter. You deserve to be happy.

Learn to love yourself more and others will soon see your worth. If you can't love yourself, then how can he truly love you?

Someday you will be tired.. tired of hiding and being scared, tired of taking risks. It is at this moment that you will realize, you deserve to be loved. You don't have to do all the giving.

Sometimes receiving can be good for you. 

Pray and believe.
Coz it all comes down to one thing: FAITH & HOPE working together.

Faith that things will be ok.
And hope that right after this, you'll come out of it better, stronger, alive and whole.

Reason then passion.. then love.